There is indeed holy as well as unholy about sex! If sex is used between 2 equal minded and intelligent man and woman with cool mindset to beget a good children to the society then it is holy. Remember that science tells that the mindset of the child who is born depends on the mindset of the parents at the time of sex. If it is used to fulfil a intermittent temporary enjoyment and to advantage of the opposite gender’s weakness then it is unholy.

Spiritually speaking the enjoyment that men/women crave for sex is due to the body/sense organs which God has given and we must win over this provoking of the body machine to reach the goal of life. That is what most religions say. The real self or consciousness in this body do not have that craving. Even disease, hunger, thirsty, anger is due to the self staying in the body which is hard to control for some person. The existence of aathma is also confirmed by some scientific researches though it may not be accepted by mainstream science. There is aathma which is independent of body. We must learn how to live life by maintaining or controlling the bodily urges. This is the real sex education we need to spread to human. Another solution may be to allowing to marry more than 1 women but law must make sure that they are not humiliated. However, Yoga or knowledge about the soul (that all the urges comes from the senses and I am not this body or senses) is the real solutions that heps to control one’s temptation.

There are many kaama-andas (who cannot control sex for every minute they live) in the world and even if they enjoy the sex, the craving will decrease for few minutes/hours but will get doubled after some time and reach a stage they cannot live (more than like we are used to mobile; can tell that they will be like used to drugs) without it. In such a stage, a person will attack any women due to money or distance constraints just to satisfy his instinct. This will lead to forcefully-snatching the freedom of the women in the society.

You are allowing the mental disorder of a person to continue instead of trying to give medicine. The itching will not stop (in fact it will deteriorate the situation) if a doctor allows the patience to continues to tickle the part of his body that is itching. legalizing the prostitution will aggravate the problem.

One thing I learn is that there are many such problems in this world for which there is no specific solution that cures it hundred percent but we must control it by balancing between the freedom and responsibility. Attraction has 2 functions: it can make a person feel good and adore it or simply forget it later. The worst part is that he may get distract by the attraction and starts behaving insane slowly. The main idea is that women must be educated that they wear dresses that is not distracting to men. I know that women has freedom to wear anything she likes in a good government but we must first understand that for every freedom there is a social responsibility. If a RSS leader makes a inflammatory speech and then says that he is not the cuase of the riots that has recently happened, you would say that inflammatory speech was the disttraction to the mob. Of course, not everyone got distracted. Some who do not have control over his feelling got distracted and created the riots. Now sam thing holds good in the case if women dresses by exposing her body. Those who have less control over their sexual urge will get distractted and involve criminal activities like rape or do not get involved in the work at that point of time mentally. So all women must try to balance between their social duty and freedom. Of course the level of distraction will vary between people but that doesn’t mean that whether women should cover her whole body or wear less dress. They must dress modesty. Ofcourse the word modest has different opinions but at least it must not be ignored completely in the case of women. Today’s world has somehow completely ignored the quality of modesty as far as women is concerned.